Thursday, May 13, 2010

J's Hair - Again and Again and Again!

Our first outing with free hair - washed Saturday night, then left out for church Sunday morning, April 11th:Then that evening (4/11), I did this:...and finished the back on April 16th:Poor little girl wasn't feeling well, and fell asleep. Doing the left side of her head was tough, because she can't suck her thumb when she lays the other way.
Not bad for a first shot at cornrows, huh? Well, sort of the first shot - I'd done a tiny one for "bangs" one time, but wasn't pleased with the shot, so I went back and studied some of the tutorial videos a little more before I did this.

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By the end of April, the cornrows and box braids were getting pretty ratty, so I pulled them out. We got so many compliments about the free hair at church April 11th, that I decided to leave it free for her birthday and the kids' dedication. Basically I would make loose parts in the front, twist them back to the top of her head and put little claw-clips in it. The claw clips would stay in place even during naps and overnight. I would just comb it out every couple days after bathtime when I would condition and then spray in detangler. These are just a few random free-hair shots.

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After just over a week of free hair (which Josephine does NOT like to have combed out!), I decided it was time for braids again. So as not to get bored with box braids, I did more cornrows this time, and tried doing them in a fun pattern. I only had about an hour on Sunday night after we got home from a Mother's Day gathering, so I just did the front. It went pretty quick - about 10 minutes per braid, including parting. It was while she was eating dinner though, so that kept her a little more still than usual.Then Tuesday night I finished the back while we watched TV. Knowing I'd have to do it from different angles, I did it on the living room floor, with her laying across my legs. She HATED me doing the left side of her head, because she had to lay on the right side and couldn't get her thumb into her mouth. She cried through 3 of the 4 braids on that side, poor girl!How did I do it? I parted ear to ear across the top to separate the front and back. I then parted from the center of her forehead back to the side to side part. Then each side, I parted into three triangles. So the front is six cornrows - each one started at her hairline and going back to the center of her head. I just put on the beads as usual, and once all six braids were done, I put a little terrycloth pony-tail holder in them. For the back, I parted side to size, and then each triangle piece from her hairline to the center of the circle, then cornrowed, beaded, and combined with a terrycloth pony-tail holder. I love how it looks like a flower in the back. When her hair gets a little bit longer, they'll hang down like a regular pony-tail. The pony-tail on the top doesn't stay put as easily (in the pix it's a little off to one side after her sleeping on it). I think it's because the cornrows aren't as close to her scalp - but I just adjust it in the morning and all is well.

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

A Complete Family?

Since bringing Elijah & Josephine home, many people have commented at how special it is that our family is now “complete”. I struggle with that word. We don’t feel like it’s “complete” yet. We don’t feel like God is done with us yet. We feel like He has more in store for our family. At this point, we don’t know what that looks like – how many, when, where, how – no idea! So for now, we are focusing on the children He has already given us, and will remain open to His next call.

We also are praying that our journey can be a blessing to others. We have many friends who have just brought children home, will soon be bringing children home, are just starting their adoption journey, or are starting to feel that tug on their hearts towards adoption. We are praying for you, friends! If you have any questions you’re interested in about our adoptions, we’re willing to share. If you would like specific prayers for something, I’m happy to pray with you.

So many people have also commented about what a wonderful thing we’ve done, and what a blessing we are to our children. Let me just say, our children are OUR biggest blessing -- more a blessing to us than we could ever be to them. If you follow God’s calling to adopt, it may not always be easy, but you will be blessed beyond measure!

Monday, May 3, 2010

Happy 3rd Birthday Josephine!!!

Our baby girl is turning three years old today! We're trying hard to make this a special birthday for her, knowing that it's the first birthday she's probably ever had celebrated. We're so proud of her and how she's been doing these past 3+ months since coming home. She's growing and learning and changing so quickly! She's quite the silly little girl, she's smart, she's mommy's cuddle-bug and such a sweet, yet feisty little girl. We love you Josephine!

Some photos from throughout the years...
Yesterday (5/2/10) after Daddy blew up the balloons for her party

Last weekend (4/24/10) at Wasserbahn

A couple weeks home - February 2010

December 2009

July 2009

March 2009 trip to Haiti

November 2008 Update Photo

July 2008 (Lisa's 2nd trip to Haiti)

March 2008 - Our first trip to Haiti

December 2007 Update Photo

September 2007 Update Photo

July 2007, at two months old - our referral photo

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Helping Haiti

I came across the Worldwide Orphans Foundation website, and then found Dr. Jane Aronson's journal (check out her bio here), which includes a day-by-day account of her two trips to Haiti since the earthquake. When she talks about "La Maison des Enfants de Dieu", that's the orphanage where Elijah & Josephine lived for 2 1/2 years. It's amazing to read of the work being done and the resources that are flowing into Haiti.

Monday, April 19, 2010

Twelve Weeks Home!

Elijah & Josephine have been home for 12 weeks now. I can hardly believe it. But when I look back at photos and descriptions of their actions, I can’t believe it hasn’t been longer! They have changed so much in these 12 weeks, as have our lives!

I thoroughly enjoyed spending time with them that was allowed me under the Family Medical Leave Act. This gave me 12 weeks of leave – and luckily it was all paid leave because of the company’s leave structures. I was dreading the return to work, and leaving my babies at daycare, but the first week went very well.

In the two weeks leading up to my return to work, we visited daycare – the first couple days with me staying with them, and then last week, I left them there for a few hours at a time. We tried out morning playtime, lunch and nap-time a couple days, and then the final day was to test if all five of us could get out the door in time for Kaylen to catch her daycare bus to school and for Jock & I to get to work (which worked just fine).

There were some tears the first couple times I left them at daycare, but the good-byes have gotten easier. Last Monday morning, God gave me an extra blessing of no tears when I left, so I could feel a little more at peace throughout my first day back to work. Most days I hear tidbits about what they’ve learned, what activities they tried, or their little antics that we all laugh about. They’re always happy to see me when I pick them up – especially Josephine. She usually runs to me, laughing. Elijah usually smiles and then finishes what he’s doing before he comes with me. We’re very pleased with how daycare is taking special time with Elijah & Josephine to help them adjust to the language, new foods, new routines, and teaching them toddler things that they are a little bit behind the other kids their age on (colors, counting, etc).

Probably the biggest change we’ve noticed in Elijah and Josephine throughout the 12 weeks they’ve been home, is in their language skills. We’ve noticed a HUGE increase in the amount of speaking they are doing. At first they would just point and grunt/whine – not even really talking in either Creole or English. We usually knew what they wanted, so we’d have them repeat after us the words to use, before we would respond. Then when they got used to that, I’d start just looking at them and waiting until they said it on their own. Now, they are getting pretty good at saying the words without any prompting, especially with praying (at least the “Dear God” and “Amen” parts), saying “please” and “thank you”, “more” and “help”, calling “Mommy” to get my attention, asking if it’s time to “brush your teeth”, saying family members' names, etc. We do still use some Creole at home, but we always try to repeat in English, so they’re using and learning both. They also understand most of what we are saying to them – although it does depend on the complexity of the subject - we we still have to use a fair amount of gestures for some things yet. We also still have the toddler-unclear-language issues, but they’re getting so much better already. Josephine speaks fairly clearly as long as there aren’t more than two or three words strung together. Elijah is still a work-in-progress, but I’ve heard that’s much just a difference between boys and girls.

Potty training is going OK. It’s quite the task to train two at the same time! Elijah still will not really tell us if he has to go and has no qualms about going in his pull-up. He will also tells us “no” if we ask him if he has to go, but will go if we take him. He usually will tell us if he goes #2 in his pull-up though, because he doesn’t like it there... but he could care less about walking around in a wet pull-up. Josephine is now going both #1 and #2 in the potty. I think part of her problem with not going #1 on the toilet was that she had her words confused. She’d go #2 and say “pee-pee”. So I finally figured that out and told her, “no, that’s poo-poo, can you go pee-pee?” That and she probably just finally figured out how to relax and let it go. You should have heard the high praises the first time she went #1 on the potty – I was so excited I even called daddy at work to tell him about it. She did it twice that day (dry diapers all day!), but then didn’t again for several more days. She is doing it regularly, now that I’m starting to figure out her schedule, and be patient with her. She usually is dry most of the day – but she must have a huge bladder and holds it for a long time. At daycare, the first few days she had different clothes on when I pick her up because she soaked through everything at naptime - but they're getting better at figuring her out too! She also takes a while to relax and actually go when she sits down on the potty, so that could have been an issue at daycare. At home, she asks frequently to go potty – I think “pee-pee” and “poo-poo” are her favorite words – but then sometimes when she asks she then says “no” when I start shooing her in the direction of the bathroom. Eventually we'll get this stuff figured out.

Elijah & Josephine have now had three rounds of immunizations. They are still not quite caught up to the recommendations for their ages, but close. Each time I have taken them in, we’ve had them check their weight. Elijah started at 32 lbs, and Josephine at 26 lbs. They both gained three pounds over the next month, and Josephine gained an extra three the following month – Elijah stayed about the same during the second month. They’ve grown inches too – they were both about 36 1/4 inches when they came home. A month later, Elijah was 37 1/2 and Josephine was 37 1/4. This last time, I forgot to have them measure their height, so I'll have to do that at home sometime soon. It’s amazing what proper nutrition – and getting rid of parasites – will do for your body!

Eating is a mixed bag at our house. Josephine will eat just about anything you put in front of her, and almost always ask for "moa pees" (translation: more please). She does not gorge herself, though, or ask for thirds, etc. She likes to feed herself, and is getting more coordinated with her spoon and even sometimes a fork – although she is still quite messy, and she usually asks for help for the last bit or two, because she has trouble scraping the last bits out. Elijah is quite another story. We struggle getting him to eat his vegetables, so we typically give him just his vegetables (a small portion) and have him eat them first before the yummy stuff. He usually is just finishing his veggies when Josephine is finishing her seconds. Sometimes we’re all finished and clearing the table, and if we have anything going on that evening, sometimes he’s not too happy when his yummy stuff gets put away without him getting to eat it. He’s learning though... I think. He’s such a SLOW eater – with just about any meal we give him, so we’ve learned how to say “hurry” in Creole. I don’t think it’s helping though – just depends on the day I suppose.

Playtime is always fun too. Both Elijah & Josephine love to play outdoors. They both like the trampoline, swinging, and the slide. Josephine does not like to touch the grass, so it took some time for her to learn how to go down the slide and not sit down in it. :) They both like to kick/throw/bounce their balls. We have yet to get out the sidewalk chalk though. They both like to ride in the stroller (I have a double jogger), and Kaylen likes to ride her bike with us, so we've gone to the park (about 1 mile each way) a few times also. When we're home, I think their favorites are the tea set dishes (both like these, but especially Josephine), and Elijah likes anything with wheels - the bigger the better. :) Both Elijah & Josephine like to read books, and they're getting better about sitting still to listen to them. They love to repeat the words after us, so that is helping their language skills as well. Favorite books are starting to emerge, but they like books in general.

I can't wait to see what changes and new adventures await us these next 12 weeks! What a blessing our new additions have been to our family! I'll try to get some more recent photos posted in the next few days as well.

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Kaylen's Future Career

I wrote this back in early December, and for some reason never actually published it. Just found it again, so I thought I'd share...

So this morning on the way to daycare, Kaylen was talking to me about writing. She's asking me if I know some author - Lois somebody, but she pronounced it like "Lewis". I said it sounded familiar, but I couldn't remember what books she'd written. Then she told me some books that she'd written: Planting a Rainbow, Color Zoo, and Color Farm. I'd never heard of these - strange. It was Lois Ehlert - they must be learning about her and reading her books in school. Kaylen didn't tell me that she was also an illustrator, and illustrated Chicka Chicka Boom Boom. That's probably where I'd heard her name - this book was the basis for a whole big unit they did in kindergarten last year. Anyway...

Kaylen goes on to tell me that she would like to read lots more books because she maybe wants to be an author someday, but she has to read lots more books so she doesn't write the same thing as someone else and it would be like stealing because they wouldn't know that she didn't read it somewhere else and copy it, "because that would just be a big mess!" Wow! Where does she learn this stuff - that's a big concept for a 1st grader!

So I went on to tell her that I think she's a really good reader and can read lots of books between now and when she wants to write books, and that I think that would be a really good job for her, to be an author. I went on to say that I know one author, and another friend who in the process of writing a book, and told her who they were and how we knew them. Kathy Cassel, who is adopting twins from the same orphanage where Elijah and Josephine live, wrote the book she has called Just For Me: The Bible, and others. I've never met Kathy in person, but we "talk" online. Also our friend Nikki loves to write, and Kaylen and Nikki's son go to the same school. (Update: We actually met Kathy in person - in Florida when we received our children from Haiti.)

She thought that was pretty exciting, but then says, well, she still wants to be a rock star, because she wants to be a singer and dancer on stage, but maybe she could do both. I told her maybe she could. Then she goes on to tell me all about how she and a couple friends are practicing to be rock stars. She likes to sing, but she also likes to do the dancing parts. Then the conversation moved on to who her two friends are that she's practicing rock star stuff with, and then we arrived at daycare.

At this age, who knows... She'll probably end up doing something completely different.

Kaylen LOVES animals (especially dogs), and we told her a couple times that maybe she'll want to be a veterinarian someday. We told her about a couple people we know who are veterinarians - but she thinks she wouldn't like the icky stuff like surgery (that I was fascinated to watch when I was a kid on the farm and the vet would visit). But these conversations usually end with, "Well, you've got lots of time to decide what you want to do when you grow up."

Too cute to not share - and will save for her to read someday.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Kaylen's First School Music Concert

Kaylen had a music concert at school last Thursday. She did a great job. There are probably 90-100 first-graders at her school, and I was amazed at the things they are learning. They sung 2-3 songs,
and also did some other chants, clapping, and other exercises that showed how well they have learned to count music, high/low notes, crescendo/decrescendo, etc.
In all these photos and the video, Kaylen is in the second row, second child from the right - short brown hair, with colorful flower dress on. You can click on the photos to enlarge them to see her better.

Elijah & Josephine had fun waiting for the concert to begin, and then did beautifully throughout the concert!

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

E&J's Medical Stuff

I got the kids into the doctor right away when they came home from Haiti, given the lack of medical care they'd had in their first 2-3+ years of life, and the recommendations from the CDC. They got a different doctor from the practice than who Kaylen had usually seen, but he's been great. He's very thorough, and is good about explaining things to us as we go.

*First week home:
They did blood draws for each kid to test for all sorts of things. Both kids screamed, of course - while one of us held them down, one tech held the arm still and the other drew the blood. Josephine did not like getting checked out by the male doc. She was afraid of him, so I don't think he got much of a look in her ears and no look at her throat, teeth, or nose. She screamed with her teeth clenched! Elijah did OK with him. Josephine would wake up from bedtime/naps with lots of gunk clogging her nose/eyes and had quite a cough and a rustle in her breathing, so they did a quick chest x-ray. It took me and a nurse/tech to hold her on the wooden chair for it. It turned out clear - probably a sinus infection, so they gave us an antibiotic and a nebulizer to use as needed. The antibiotic helped Josephine greatly. The nebulizer not so much - she was deathly afraid of it, so good thing she didn't really need it.

They sent us off with stool sample collection kits and orders to do this three times per child - fun. The doc decided to wait a week or so for immunizations until they're a little more adjusted and J was feeling better.

*Week Two:
The doctor called... both kids are anemic, and both have slightly elevated lead levels but he assumes with proper nutrition and iron supplements for a couple months, the iron levels will rise, He said that the lead levels (which can be caused somewhat by the low iron) will go back within the normal range. So I was off to purchase iron drops to put into both of their breakfast each morning. Stuff's not easy to find, but I did find it at one of the many pharmacies in town.

He also asked us to take Elijah back to have some further labs redone - he asked us to do it at the main peds clinic, instead of the one we usually go to, because they have the more sophisticated lab there. So, since Jock was back at work, I took both the kids myself. Boy, was that a disaster! When I got there, they didn't know anything about it. So they called our doc to find out what was going on, had him re-fax the lab order, only to tell me that I had to go across the street to the hospital's main lab, not the peds clinic. Granted this was my first time out myself with the kids, but while I was waiting for them to figure this out, Elijah and Josephine got nutty and wild! The door going back to the examining rooms was propped open, and they were both running away from me - and it turned into a game for them - running and laughing while I chased them. What a disaster! Finally the nurse came out with the lab order slip and helped me wrangle the kids and get their coats back on while she explained where to go and what needed to be done. She was awesome, I was embarrassed.

Elijah and Josephine got a little lecture before we got out of the car at the hospital - although they probably had no clue what I was saying - they knew I meant business, and were fine at the next place. They stayed right next to me while we waited for them to get it figured out. Elijah cried like crazy because it was him getting poked and Josephine cried because she couldn't see me (I was holding him down on the other side of the two techs) and probably also because she thought she was next from the previous week. Both's cries stopped immediately when the tech pulled out the sucker basket. Then Elijah cried half-way home because he dropped his sucker on the floor in the van. I stopped at McDonald's on our way home for lunch - Wednesday is $2 Happy Meal days. :)

*Week Three:
I took Kaylen (and E&J with) to the doctor for her ear ache. She had been complaining of her ear hurting but then she'd say it was better, so I assumed it was just drainage during sleeping. Then overnight she was up crying for 2+ hours - and Tylenol didn't touch it! Turns out she had a really nasty ear infection - doc was surprised she was acting so well in the office.

While we were there, the doc asked if we wanted to go ahead and start E&J's immunizations. Sure - they were behaving fairly well and were healthy, so why not make it all in one trip instead of having to come back in a couple days! (They must not have been busy that day.) Kaylen had been having trouble listening to me and behaving in general the last few days (now we know probably aggravated by her being sick), but today she was AWESOME!!! She was mommy's helper extraordinaire! And, boy did E&J scream for the shots - E got 6, J got 5. Two nurses came in to make it go faster. Each were holding down one leg and giving shots - I was holding the upper body and hands down. The nurses were amazed by how strong they were - especially Elijah - and warned me to give them Tylenol as soon as we got home because they were very tense and their muscles would be sore. They sure were. Both - but especially Elijah - were walking funny and whiny when they had to walk or get their diapers changed that afternoon/evening - and Elijah into the next day in one leg. Poor kiddos!

Then we stopped by the clinic's pharmacy before leaving, and the peds office had given us tickets for free lollies, so that helped. :) Then we went home and had lunch and naps.

The doc didn't have the last stool sample back that day, so we were still waiting on that. He'd called the previous week to say they wanted to do another sample for each kid. Apparently the first sets showed Josephine had some sort of parasite, but they couldn't tell what kind it was - there are two that look the same under the microscope so they had to do another sample (this time frozen) to see which one it was. He wouldn't have the results back until the following week.

*Week Four:
Elijah wouldn't eat supper one night. He'd been eating very well since he'd been home, but we thought maybe he just gagged on too big of a bite, so we didn't think too much of it. We put him to bed early and hoped it was nothing. By 11 he was up again, crying, vomited a couple more times (on me!), and burning up with a 102-103 fever. He was back in bed by midnight and slept the rest of the night and was fine when he woke up.

The next day, we took E to the doctor anyway - had a lump behind his ear and cried through nap time. It was an inflamed/infected lymph node. They couldn't see in his ears because of the dried/built-up wax. He's now on an oral atb (which he likes) and an ear-drop atb (which he hates). E&J also had their tuberculin tests started. Doc said the lab had J's stool sample figured out, but were trying to find the medicine for it and order it in a form that she could take.

At the end of the week, we had to go back to have their TB tests read - which were negative, and to pick up J's parasite meds. It was half-pills that she had to take three times per day for 20 days. Boy - that was fun! And the instructions said to crush it and put it in applesauce or chocolate syrup. From other adoptive families I'd heard the joys of choking their kids to get them to take it because of the taste, but luckily Josephine took it just fine each of the 60 times.

Week Five:
Nothing except continuing Elijah's oral antibiotic, ear drops, and both E&J's iron supplement.

Week Six:
All is fine except Jock, Kaylen, and I come down with head colds. Not fun chasing a two- and three-year old when you're sick yourself, but somehow we survived.

Week Seven:
Took both Elijah & Josephine back to the doctor for round two of their immunizations. It was a pretty quick trip. Elijah had two shots, Josephine got one, which was a combo of three vaccines. We finished up Josephine's parasite meds finally!

Week Eight:
Nothing except continuing E&J's iron supplement.

Week Nine:
Kaylen had a sore throat we took her in for, so we have one back on an antibiotic, but nothing for E&J except for continuing their iron supplement. I like these weeks with little/nothing medical to update about!

Week Ten:
Nothing to update. Continuing E&J's iron supplement.

Week Eleven:
Round three of shots were this morning. Both got two shots, and weren't happy about them. Both also got blood drawn to recheck their lead and iron levels, and weren't happy about those either. The lab tech seemed annoyed that my and the other tech couldn't hold their arms still. I'm not sure what she expected. It seemed to go better the previous times we had their blood drawn, but was OK. The nurse called back already this afternoon to let us know the E&J's lead levels were back within the normal ranges - yeah!!! We should have their iron levels back tomorrow. Now no more blood draws until June (for Elijah) and no more shots until October - yeah!!!

Elijah has had the sniffles the past several days, but no other symptoms. I'm guessing he might have a bit of the seasonal allergies. Nothing new to this family! The pollen counts have been high around here for the last week or so. It's kind of cute though - he'll come up to me, get my attention and just stare at me until I notice that he's got snot running down his upper lip. It's his way of telling me he needs a kleenex. I'm just glad he's not a kid that doesn't care if he's got snot all over his face. :)

...and hopefully they all stay healthy for a while now, because I go back to work next week. I can only imagine they might pick up viruses fairly easily from their daycare friends this first year, but being that the weather is warming up, I'm hoping they don't catch too much until the weather turns cold again this fall.

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

J's Hair: Double-stranded Twists

I re-did Josephine's hair yesterday. It'd been three weeks and a day, so it was time. I forgot to take another photo of her box braids before I took them out, but her parts and hairline were getting pretty fuzzy, and even some of the braids were a little fuzzy. It took me about an hour to remove the beads and box-braids. There were 20 braids, but 7 of these were two-tier piggy-back braids, so it was 20 beads/rubberbands, but then more like 27 braids. I did that right after lunch, then the kids had a later-than-usual nap.

After nap, I got to work washing and parting. Josephine still does not like to have her hair washed. I do it in my laundry sink because it has a sprayer - and she is afraid of the sprayer. She is getting better though. She didn't bite me this time! :) I think maybe having her shower with me sometimes is helping that. She and Elijah also get to play with the water and the sprayer for a bit before I start, so that probably helps too.

Once washed and towel-dried a bit, it looked like this:
Then I started parting and twisting - which took me about two hours to completion. I popped in a movie, and put the booster on the living room floor. This made it a little more difficult, because all my supplies were not contained to the table to help keep Elijah from running off with them. The parting takes me the longest I would guess maybe about 1 1/4 to 1 1/3 hours - it's sometimes difficult with a wiggly 2-year-old - and I wasn't sure exactly where I wanted the parts, so I had to redo a little bit as I went. I have decided that I like to do the parting first and clip off the sections (I need more clips!) before I start braiding or twisting. This way, I won't have problems with the sizes when I get to the end - which happened the first time I did box-braids.

Below are a few photos of the finished product. There are 6 sections. I did an "X" across the top of her head, then parted the back into three section. After holding with the terry pony-holders, I split into two pieces, twisted each individual piece to the right, and then put right over left. Then I finished them off with a rubberband and a couple beads. I can't get more than a couple beads on twists because they're thicker than the tiny box braids I've done. They will hold without beads and bands, but I like the look of the beads on the ends. I'm told this kind of twist will hold as long as a braid. I'm not sure I believe it yet, but we'll see. I do know, though, that since the parts are bigger, I'll probably be touching them up a few times, as the parts get fuzzier faster.

Sorry there are none of her looking at me - she was being a stinker and wouldn't look at me - thought she was being cute (well, OK, she was!). Kaylen and Daddy were even trying to help, but she got this mischievous grin on her face and just wouldn't. :)

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Adoption Update Mar2010

We got an email last night from FHG's director, containing our Haitian Adoption Decrees. We are praising God for this EXCELLENT news! We knew we had legal and final adoption decrees from spring 2009, but we didn't know if our processor had a copy of them, or if he would be able to get the originals from the rubble of the MOI building in Port-au-Prince. I'm so happy we now have a copy of them. This means that we have proof that we are the legal parents of our Haitian babes and they have our last name This also means that, for their Humanitarian Parole status, their immigration/citizinship will be finalized under "Category 1", which is much less involved than "Category 2" which is for families without adoption decrees.

So, what are our next steps?
  • I'm going to have to get the adoption decrees, along with E&J's Haitian birth certificates translated from French into English. I've created my own (very rough) translations just from Google Translate, but it's not all quite right, and they require certified translations anyway.
  • We need to have our I-600s approved by USCIS. We originally filed these in July 2008 when I traveled to Haiti, so I'm going to email to find out how we do this without having to refile and repay the filing fees. Our fingerprints are valid, and we had renewed our deadline every three months as requested, so I'm hoping we don't have any issues with this.
  • We will need to file the I-485. I still have several questions about how to go about this. These forms generally require a hefty filing fee, but it's unclear even how we go about filing this, so I'm holding off on this part for a little bit anyway, until we have more clear direction from USCIS. We had heard that USCIS was working on some updated information, so hopefully we hear about that soon as well.
This also means good news for our taxes. We should be able to include Elijah & Josephine as our dependents for 2009, and also receive the adoption tax credit. This is great news, however, we likely don't have time to apply for tax ID numbers for them before the filing deadline. So we'll probably be completing our taxes without them included, and then go back and amend the return later. It will kind of be a pain, but we'll make it work.