Tuesday, September 30, 2008

Busy-ness

Things have been crazy! It's been a while since I've posted much. So, what's been going on?


  • Keeping up with Kaylen's kindergarten things (a few worksheets per week, one small book per day, a library book every 6 days, and other random items, notes, etc.).
  • Keeping up with Kaylen's Kid Central activities Wednesday nights at church (a small workbook with 7-8 short activities, including 2 Bible verse songs on the CD per week to learn, a key Bible verse to learn, daily prayer & discussion as needed).
  • Keeping up with my own Bible study - a small group meetings weekly, but daily study and prayers - usually done over my lunch break. (Kaylen's songs and lessons help here too.)
  • Church weekly, and helping with the 4-year-olds' Sunday school class once per month. I may also join the choir for the Thanksgiving services, which will add a few rehearsals - but they'll mostly be the nights while Kaylen's at Kid Central.
  • Kaylen playing soccer one hour each Saturday - has now had 2 of the 6 week season.
  • Learning my new Optimist Club duties - I'm the Secretary/Treasurer this year.
  • Work.
  • Being more deliberate about planning meals that are more healthful and economical (in terms of both time & $$) for our family.
  • Laundry, house cleaning (although I won't pretend I've can always keep up-our floors are disgusting and please no white glove tests on any shelves, and there are laundry piles everywhere - clean and dirty!).
  • Personal hygiene - both my own and assisting Kaylen. (What?! You mean those nails have to be trimmed once in a while? Well, mine do - Kaylen tends to bite hers but she's doing better. :)
  • Managing the family's financials -- and trying to ignore the 401(k).
  • Medical/dental appointments for myself and Kaylen.
  • Keeping track of Kaylen's social activities - lots of daycare/kindergarten friends mean lots of birthday parties!
  • Planning events with friends and family.
  • The adoption processing is always on my mind, but I'm trying to not obsess about it. I do fluctuate back and forth, but I've tried to hand it all over to God. I know He is taking care of the children and of the process. I'm trying to seek out His will for my waiting period.
  • Keeping up with blogs/facebook. Well, obviously that's fallen back a bit. I haven't been commenting, but I still read quite a few, and know that many of you are in my prayers.
  • Exercising - coupled with good talks with a wonderful friend - the excellent stress-reliever!
Kaylen's really good about helping when she's needed, or going to play when it's easier for me to just handle things myself. She helps with loading/unloading the dishwasher, setting the table for meals, and also cleaning the bathrooms (well, marginally well - her "clean" is not always the same as my "clean", but better than before usually!). She also keeps her toys and books picked up - we've always stressed putting her things away before she gets out something else or moves on to a different activity, so that helps keep things under control a bit. She now also knows her expectations as far as school work and personal hygeine (although once in a while we still battle on a few things). Aren't routines wonderful?!

Jock's also awesome help. He keeps the home repairs/garage/basement/lawn under control, keeps the electronics and appliances working, and does dishes. He's starting to do the grocery shopping - works right next to where we shop, so that's very helpful when we have limited time to help Kaylen get her stuff done in the evenings - and he's better at watching for bargains than I am. He takes care of his own laundry and cooks meals sometimes, and helps a lot with really all of the stuff above - otherwise I'd really be crazy! :)

What keeps all of you busy these days?

6 comments:

Dawn S. said...

AAAAGH! I need a nap after reading that! :)

Lisa said...

Oh yeah. I also try to squeeze in a nap on the weekend too. Or maybe sleeping in on Saturday morning if we have nothing else going on that I have to be up early for.

And Jodie's article that posted yesterday - exactly my thoughts - just could never have articulated it as well as she did. Although I'm not quite there yet in terms of giving up the control.

Anonymous said...

I'm right there with you on the white glove tests!! my house is one big pile that needs to be put away/cleaned.

Terry said...

hmmmm, what else do you need to throw into the mix...how about chasing around two sweet little angels from Haiti :-)

Terry

Lisa said...

Terry - Absolutely I'd LOVE to add the two little ones to the mix!

Erin said...

Morning sickness (aka all-day sickness!) :)